quit bickering

argh i hate it when parents quarrel esp when it's partly due to me argh... i think cold war is now on in my hse... grrrrrr.... stupid me!
sigh in a "quarreless" relationship, 1 party always have to give in n 忍 when even though it may not be tt person's fault.. but if u r the person who always gives in then the other party will soon get used to it n take for granted tt he/she can juz critisize u any old how rite... n one day when u no longer can take it anymore n tok back n argue... BOOM.. war has erupted! sigh! so bez is for both parties to not critisize each other... even when it's sth u 看不顺眼 u shd tell the person in a nice way...
hmmm i think when u see a person everyday esp like if u r husband n wife, slowly u will notice stuff abt the other party tt u will pick on or irks u... things tt u may not have noticed b4 or choose not to notice... hmm there's a saying in hakka tt when loosely translated goes like this: "when u see a person 3 times a yr, u will serve the person tea n noodles; when u see a person 3 times a day, u will serve the person ur fist." hmm...
anyhow, next time when u guys get married, dun bicker in frt of ur kids yah? it gives the kids alot of stress... bez is dun bicker at all lah haha...
finally to my dear parents! end the cold war! NOW! it's getting too quiet in the hse! one of u betta swallow ur pride n start a conversation SOON!!! grrrrrr....